Welcome to Pattaya, Thailand!
Beware: Good idea ahead!
Right now I want to ask you a question.
The question goes like this….
Whatever you want to do…
What are you waiting for!?
Start living it now!
The only reason I write this is because I finally see the difference between:
staying at home working/dreaming about running an online business and travel the world
and deleting the “dreaming” part and actually just start traveling right away!
There will never be a “right time”.
Yeah sure 3 days ago I took all my money and went for it… and I’m probably going to end dead broke of money 3 months from now..
but I’m also going to end FILTHY RICH of experiences, inspiration and life. Because I choose to LIVE now, instead of keep thinking “I need a bit more money, time, security, etc.”.
No no no…
Work hard for 1 or 2 months..
tell your boss that you’re going to take a couple of months of..
book a ONE WAY ticket – very important that return ticket isn’t included! Make it an adventure.
Take the leap!
When you do that, not only are you living your dream while building your online business - you are also inspiring your friends and family to live theirs.
You can tell them anything, but NOTHING inspires more than action.
Yesterday, out partying, meeting cool people.
- Jonas Kay
162 DAYS LEFT!
This is me. This is my office.
This is where I want to be and what I want to do right now (Lebua Tower, Bangkok)
If you don’t know me yet, I can tell you that I value FREEDOM extremely much.
I just turned 25, and since then I thought it was time to GROW UP and take respinsibility for my life.
Before I thought a musical career and the life of a rapstar was my destiny, but I figured out that it wasn’t in alignment with my VALUE (freedom; to go wherever I want, whenever I want; to buy/eat whatever I want, etc.) I would be limited to 1 country, a schedule and low money (compared to the kind of life I want to live).
So basically I saw all these articles and people online preaching about making money online and thought.. “That’s what I’m going to do!”
“..As fast as possible!”
So I set a deadline for myself.
I set the deadline to be:
1st of july 2014
162 days from now.
And this is the page where a lot of the magic will go down:
The last couple of weeks has been spent on research and thinking. And I like to think that I came up with some pretty solid money making ideas:
(Self improvement blogging)
Topics: Dating, making money online, lifestyle design, motivation.
The countdown timer on the right sidebar is BY FAR the coolest thing!
(For the 3D printing industry – next big thing. News, forum, buy&sell 3D designs)
Forget Apple. In 10 years from now a smartphone are going to be worth $100 (read the book: The New Digital Age)
3D printing is the next big thing. Period.
Imagine dropping a glass on the hard kitchen floor. What do you do?
1. You go online, 2. buy a glass-design from a “buy&sell 3D designs” website, 3. You put the broken glass in the printer and print a new glass.
That’s freaking awesome!
So far, the plan for 3Dgazelle.com is to keep learning about the rising industry and begin designing a “buy&sell” + forum website. I’m going to take a small % of each sale, and there’ll be advertising opportubities as well. Maybe later I could hire freelance writers to write articles that is going to drive traffic.
Time for establishment: 1 year.
Sell a WordPress theme
(a http://www.fmylife.com clone)
Time: 1-2 months
I’m already chatting with indian developers on odesk.com.
If you would like, please share your thoughts and ideas on making money online below. Thank you.
Until next time.
Even though there would be a laundry list of topics i would inform my younger self about, just thinking for a moment i kept coming back to only one. Do not be afraid to fail. For failure is the beginning of experience, ex- perience is the opening to wisdom, and wisdom is the key ingredient to changing for the better.
- Charles Graffeo
Perhaps I would say a lot, forgetti
ng the most im- portant but then “the most important” is quite personal and that’s how it should be so it is gonna be ok even like this, even more – because of this.
What I would have liked to have known back then is that there is no shame to take yourself as a beginner but most probably back then I would not be able to see it the way I do now. So the next is that every time comes with its rea- sons, images, lessons, still you can always approach any mat- ter in a better way, you can always change and not be afraid to explore no matter the age but only when you know what you are doing and really taking the responsibility – in the meaning of being able to explain to yourself and, if neces- sary, to any person involved in the situation, what you did and why you did it, simply being consious and present, with- out overdoze of fooling around. Sure, be reckless, passion- ate, totally crazy but just for the sake of joy. Listen to music, listen to yourself (go for a ride or a walk in a place you think you know so very well and try to see it as if for the first time), look at people and their reactions (without your interest standing in their way), consider your reactions as if from a distance, travel and while you travel talk with the people you meet, not push it, if the conversation happens, most of the times it’s in a
very natural and, risking to sound pathetic, nourishing way, just because usually it gives some food for thought, at least gets you out of your nest and you start thinking about other matter, different from yours and still they lead you to
your matters hopefully in a better way. The distance some- times can be a great chance to have a closer view. Read whatever you love, find new authors, share what you have read, discuss or simply tell the story, share your passion, do the things you love whenever you can but again don’t rush it, it works with your presence (not with your intervention). Don’t be afraid to risk. Love, love, love.
- Velina Vateva
Be the best human being you can be.
Observe, listen carefully and walk that mile in the shoes of others before youspeak.
Be honest without being hurtful.
Be fair without splitting the baby.
Be respectful to all people and in all things be humble. Seek knowledge in all the disciplines you can and never stop learning.
You won’t always be successful, but always give it your best shot.
- Sue Ryan
It’s not easy. Maybe you have to keep dreaming, doing what you think is up to you, but being aware of the fol- lowing: everything you did yesterday have configured the person who you are right now, and everything you do today will influence tomorrow not only yourself, but EVERY PERSON and THING you even won’t meet or imagine whether they exist. Remember: you live in a great theatrical setting. If you love beauty and simplicity, you have to give the best of you for the improving of Humankind.
- Ramiro Benavides
Loving and Sharing!
- Hue Vu
I would say ‘ hey , don’t eat so much, keep a good shape and find a beautiful girlfriend then give your first kiss to her.
- Andrew Hu
I would say share your thoughts, don’t keep all those crazy ideas to yourself.
- Wade Crum
You are better than you think you are.
- Bryan Yap
A credit card is not the answer. Too many college stu- dents don’t understand what debt is or how to be fi- nancially literate.
- Edwin Tjoe
Stop looking elsewhere for what you will find much closer to home.
- Gabo Moreno
I’ll talk to the blossoming young man me.
Now you are a man. Now you can play according to your own rules.
When you were a child you understood yourself, the others and the world through the beliefs and behaviors of your parents and significant adults.
When you were a child, you had the experience of a child, you thought like a child and you understood like a child.
When you were a child you made most of your belief system.
My dear intelligent young man! Since the child- hood when you made your belief system:
How many books and articles did you read?
How many knowledge did you gain through your senses?
How many persons did you interact with, who had differ- ent sets of beliefs than yours?
How many situations did you go through and how did you experience them according to your beliefs?
My dear! Do you accept that an intelligent, experienced, skilled, well-educated man like you lives with sets of beliefs made by a cute little child?
My dear! Examine your beliefs and decide according to all what you gathered through your life tell now, which be- liefs you want to keep and which you want to change with
other more developed ones.
My dear! Don’t be afraid to let the dysfunctional beliefs
go. Don’t be afraid of losing your identity if you lost some beliefs. You are not your beliefs. You were not born with these beliefs. You already existed before these beliefs and you will still be there after letting them go. You are not your beliefs. You created your beliefs in the past and you may up- date them now and believe me, even the updated beliefs are not the final versions. In your coming days you’ll know more, experience more and understand more and you will update some beliefs if you saw that a new version would be more functional in the here and now.
My dear young man! You make your beliefs and your be- liefs make your life.
- Thin Ker
That was some really inspiring words!
What advice would YOU give your younger self?
Write in comments.
This post is re-posted from https://medium.com/i-m-h-o/3dc264023df5
My name is Stephanie St.Claire, and I am an unfunded entrepreneur. I’ve been in business for 3 years, after engaging in my own personal and tenuous renaissance (uh…divorce) and rediscovering my Divine Core Purpose. In other words, I grew a pair of ladyballs and started living the life I always wanted to while making money doing it.
But there was a LOT to learn, and some of those things weren’t covered in Who Moved My Cheese.
Throw these 4 rockstars into a blender, and you’ll have a composite sketch of me in the first three months of my business:
Glitter was literally shooting out of my eye sockets as I quit my PR firm job and started my own business. Full of optimism, living in New York City, and surrounded by a tribe of friends who were also launching businesses, art, and gigs, I felt it was the perfect time to make the bold move to entrepreneurship. I was now officially Living My Dream and Working For Myself which meant that I was In Charge of My Financial Destiny and Captain of My Promising Future.
Luckily my initial hyper-optimism buoyed me whilst, oscillating between euphoria and despair, I was slowly but systematically forced off The Magic School Bus and onto the S.S. Battleship Long Haul.
I was a quick and eager learner, but despite the hours of webinar watching, countless Friday nights pumping out site copy, and teaching myself everything I could about HTML, there were just some things I didn’t get. I had to fall on my ass to procure the “masters degree in life survival” every entrepreneur has to earn on their “journey.”
Yes, those were wildly gesticulated air quotes.
Here are 11 things I wish I knew when I started my business. I hope they will save you some time, but at the very least, some anguish because — experience is a good teacher here — the sodium from your tears acts as a corrosive melting agent on all brands of premium ice cream, but otherwise, makes a superb saline for your dirty martini. Cry over a cup, oh fathomless bird of preneurial gumption!
Running the business is your first priority. Your success (and financial stability) will come from expertly running your business — not teaching yoga, life coaching, writing copy, or making jewelry. In other words, you will spend 15% of the time doing what you love (your gift..in my case coaching and writing) and 85% of the time marketing, administrating, selling, strategizing your business, and answering a shitload of email. Survival will totally hinge on how quickly you adopt this role of Business Owner first, creator of pretty things, second.
This sucked for me because I wanted nothing to do with running a business. I just wanted to be a writer and a life coach who wrote and coached all day. I didn’t get it.
Ready to meet your soul mate? It’s you. Entrepreneurship is the most life changing relationship (like marriage or parenthood) that a person can have. You will be confronted overandoverandover with your fears, your insecurities, your crappy excuses, your limitations, your justifications, your shitty integrity, and your inefficient time management. The standard you held yourself to in the work-a-day world was good enough then, but it won’t be good enough to run your own business. And you will learn to accept yourself through all this because in order to get up every day and create, you have to. Somehow through that process of acceptance, while you’re busy putting yourself out there in spite of your flaws, your weaknesses will transform and you will fall in love with yourself. Not in the over-hyped “SELF LOVE 2012” way, but in a quiet way that sneaks up on you after witnessing a thousand splinter-sized moments of transcending the baser aspects of yourself.
Your trajectory for success will take as long as everyone else’s, even though you’re special and brilliant. I heard the “two-year rule” when I started my biz, but I was confident I could do it in 6 months. I believed with every fiber of my glittery, go-gettin’ heart that my work ethic (15-hour days/7 days a week), along with my talent, skills, and personal magic, I could rip a path to accelerated success because also, this was A Leap of Faith and I was Living in My Divine Authenticity and that was worth some express lane juju points from Heaven.
Jesus had other plans.
Running out of money is a common part of the journey. You won’t expect it, because you prepared for the long haul. You secured a business loan, or got some investors, or sold your house (cough, cough), or have one year’s worth of savings and you have planned accordingly.
But then all of the sudden, midst the puffy clouds and blue skies, your little twin engine Entreprenairplane will sputter, the needle on the gas gauge unexpectedly plummeting to zero, and you will have only one choice… land your plane on the wild, abandoned air strip called Bank Balance: Fourteen Dollars. And this will be the LAST PLACE you ever thought you’d crash land, cuz didn’t you pass this test on No More Sephora Island?
The good news is this is a rite of passage that will launch you into the League of Business Badassery in which, once you are out of the money hellhole, you will be unstoppable. You’ve been to the baddest prison there is, you looked down the barrel of your worst fear, and you stood your ground. You didn’t quit. You got up the next day, and you wrote your next post, created your next offering, and answered the email with zero dollars in your bank account.
There is nothing more beautiful than running out of money and realizing that you are doing your work because you’ve got the guts to stand in the face of no agreement and push through when there is no evidence of security. You really, truly love what you do, and you’d do it for free if you had to.
Irony is a sassy bitch, isn’t she?
Build a hybrid stream of income. Take a second job if it will give you peace of mind. Please don’t be a jackass like I was and make it mean that you’re failing at your business. I was so resistant to “dividing my focus” or taking any action which I interpreted as undermining my commitment to being a successful writer and coach. Do you see the hellish mousetrap that was? I really thought that by making a Plan B I was telling the Universe I wasn’t 100% serious about my success. Don’t even get me started with my crazy aversion to Plan B’s. I created a worse problem by allowing financial stress to gut me of my sanity.
If having a steady stream of part-time income would be in service to your peace of mind, DO IT.
I finally came to terms with the fact that I was being obnoxiously naïve about how money, peace, survival, and timing all work together and I got a second job. By doing this, I supernaturalized my own path to freedom and self-sustainability. And since I wasn’t freaking out about money anymore, I liberated more creative real estate in my brain to apply toward my business.
Read Steven Pressfield’s Do the Work. The biggest challenge you will deal with in running a business is your own resistance. Period, end of story. Before you study anything about marketing, social media, money, or time management, read this book. You’ll be treated to gems like this:
Our enemy is not lack of preparation; it’s not the difficulty of the project, or the state of the marketplace, or the emptiness of our bank account. The enemy is resistance. The enemy is our chattering brain, which, if we give it so much as a nanosecond, will start producing excuses, alibis, transparent self-justifications, and a million reasons why he can’t/shouldn’t/won’t do what we know we need to do.
A professional distances herself from her instrument. The pro stands at one remove from her instrument — meaning her person, her body, her voice, her talent; the physical, mental, emotional, and psychological being she uses in her work. She does not identify with this instrument. It is simply what God gave her, what she has to work with. She assesses it coolly, impersonally, objectively.
Does Madonna walk around the house in cone bras and come-f*k-me bustiers? She’s too busy planning D-Day. Madonna does not identify with “Madonna.” Madonna employs “Madonna.”
Spend less time researching, more time doing. Researching/studying/ reading other people’s blogs is a form of resistance. In order to get clarity, you must act. Clarity does not come by learning more, it comes by jumping in with your instincts and putting yourself out there, even if you don’t know exactly what you’re doing.
Block out the distractions (turn off the phone, Facebook, and Gmail) and take inspired action that feels fun, easy, and exciting. This will rattle your inner Perfectionist Catholic German Drill Sergeant, because you have been taught that succeeding requires you to do boring, tedious crap that’s difficult. Sometimes you’ll have to do boring stuff (prep your tax receipts) but when working your business, create daily, tangible goals that give you a sense of inspired accomplishment or you will end up sucking down shots of Johnny Walker and playing Candy Crush Saga at 3 in the afternoon. Or Instagramming the dog. Same thing.
Only say yes to clients/collaborative projects that are HELL YESES.Scrutinize any joint project carefully and qualify the person you are doing the project with (even if they are your friend and you LOVE them). Get everything in writing before you embark on the project, with a clear division of labor and deadline dates. You will most likely be splitting the profits, so have two numbers in your head: The $ number you would LIKE to make, and the $ number you NEED to make in order to pay for your time. Set the first financial deadline early to make your NEED number so that you both have the freedom to walk away if the project isn’t going to be profitable. Have a transition strategy in mind so in case that happens and one of you wants to continue on with the project, there is a way to pass the baton gracefully.
Summed up: COMMUNICATE ABOUT EVERYTHING, even though you’re friends, even though you love each other, even though you trust each other, even though you’ve worked together at XYZ Company, because projects have a way of going sideways and making everyone a little custodial and overreactive.
You must devote time to becoming a brilliant marketer. MUST. I know you just want to spend all your days making hipster sarsaparilla-scented mustache wax, or needle pointing edgy throw pillows for Etsy, or writing your YA zombie novel, or life coaching women to stratospheric success, but if you don’t spend time marketing you will not make money.
This was my biggest weakness when I started because I thought marketing = slimy sales letters with big arrows and opt-in boxes and I couldn’t! I wouldn’t! So I put my head in magical fairyland sand, stubbornly insisting that my customers would be tractor-beamed into my budding practice by the pulsating, heavenly light that radiated from my vision boards and 4 blog posts.
And then I ate canned food and spaghetti for a long, long time.
But this rescued me — knowing what category I fell into: a guru-star, wisdom guide (ding ding), or connector/supporter. Beth Grant explains this expertly and you can watch a free webinar here which will help you figure out which one you are. And once you have that figured out, marketing to your customers will be a thousand times easier because you will be working within your natural vibe. I am not an affiliate for this, I just really love her work.
Learn what way you like to market and stick to that and do it consistently and often. Even if you hire a pro, you will be doing some marketing yourself. Keeping your website fresh and current is essential in your marketing, so learn how to work WordPress and learn some HTML code. You will be in the guts of your website A LOT.
Email will be your new best frenemy. Your inbox will explode. You care about everyone, but you can’t help everyone. Read: Not everyone is your customer. Your inbox will be a jumble of people who want to say thank you, people who want free stuff, and people who want your services. Your job is to quickly discern who’s who and respond in the most appropriate way.
Shorten the email back-and-forth as quickly as possible with people that are your potential clients. If your business is a consultancy where you are selling your time, I recommend having two form letters on hand that you can customize to the occasion: one for your potential customer and the other for your not potential customer.
Your Customer: Acknowledge their situation, request, or problem and invite them to a 20-minute call. Include your available dates, times, and a phone number you can be reached.
Not Your Customer: Acknowledge their situation, request, problem and direct them to other resources, practitioners, blogs, or articles that would be a splendid fit for them.
I love personally connecting with my clients. In this area of business, I am 1997 all the way, and I pick up the phone and talk to them live. I set up all the calls on one day or schedule them after my regular client sessions. I have found this to save a colossal amount of time. In a 20 minute phone call, I accomplish the following:
- Find out their history and current issues.
- Explain to them how coaching works and pricing.
- Ascertain if we are a right fit and they are ready for coaching.
- Answer any of their logistical questions.
- Give them a personal sense of what it would be like to work with me on the phone (my tone of voice, cadence through the call, etc.).
- Process the invoice.
- Set up the first session.
Do you know how long that would take back-and-forth by email?
5 days to a month. Do not screw your own time economy.
Number eleven is a hodge-podge: Do not work your business 7 days a week. From time to time, forget everything you know about the “right way” to run a business and run it like a neighborhood lemonade stand. Do not price your offerings around your personal ability to pay for it — you are not your ideal customer. Work out perplexing issues in your business and it will resolve problems in other areas of your life. Breathe, play, laugh. Remember how lucky you are to be an entrepreneur. If you want to be smarter in business, read everything these two people write: James Altucher and Penelope Trunk.
Now it’s your turn: What piece of advice could you offer a new entrepreneur? Onward!
Stephanie St.Claire | Intuitive Guidance Counselor | BLISSBOMBED.com
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